Get To Know PauseLogic

I'm a real human who really, really struggled with high-confict dynamics in coparenting and within my own family system.

PauseLogic wasn’t created in theory or from a distance—it was built in the middle of hard moments, tense messages, and the constant pressure of saying the “right” thing when everything felt charged.

I needed something that helped me pause, respond clearly, and protect what mattered most: our kids and our own steadiness. Often, the questions came when things finally slowed down—late at night, between exchanges, or after a difficult message—when legal counsel wasn’t available and Google only made things more confusing. The more I retrained my brain in coparenting, the faster I was able to respond to high-conflict issues at work and within my own family, de-escalating and taking a breath to not let the stress carry-over into the moments I wanted to savor. 

As a very mediocre mathematician, I couldn’t stop thinking: if this kind of communication works, there must be a formula for it, right? 






I tried almost everything that existed, and still felt unsupported in the moments that mattered most. So I created the tool and model I needed to not go nuclear or cause regret. 

That’s why PauseLogic focuses on structure, clarity, and calm—so you don’t have to figure it out alone. It’s designed to meet you in the real moments: when your nervous system is taxed, when the stakes feel high, and when you want to respond in a way you can stand behind later. ResponseReady doesn’t promise perfection—it offers steadiness, support, and a clear path forward when things feel hard.

I'm also always open to feedback. If there’s something you wish existed—or something that could work better—simply send us an email through our Contact Us button just below. I'm committed to listening and continuing to build tools that help reduce fight-or-flight responses and support calmer, more intentional communication over time.

From one human to another-- you've got this.